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Twin Flame or Soul Mate?

Posted on March 22, 2015 at 1:30 AM

I am often asked about twin flame relationships versus soul mate relationships. While no one can tell you which is best for you, I feel that it is important that you understand the main, key differences, and decide for yourself which relationship is best for you.

Twin flames are indeed your twin; whether male/female or in same sex relationships, each person has a twin flame. However, it is best to be honest with why these relationships are not for everyone. First, what typically occurs is that both parties are not available at the same time; one is married or dating and when they no longer are, they other party is. Be very careful as this affects your karma is you interfere in someone's relationship. Although the pull is great, it is best to wait until you are both single and available before taking on the relationship.

On top of that, there is always a runner in the relationship; during the course of my research, it tends to be the men who run (in male/female relationships) and by run, I mean disappear. They run off and stay gone for an indeterminate amount of time and then BAM out of the blue return. What I advise my clients - those who chose to wait for the return - is to date and enjoy life while their twin flame is off doing who knows what.

Keep in mind that twin flame relationships are extremely intense and not for everyone; many lead with fear - meaning as soon as they feel that they are losing control in a relationship, they allow fear to take over - and the fear makes them run. The relationships run hot and cold; they are extremely passionate, sexual and it is often the most intense sexual experience. However, keep in mind that the soul mate offers just as intense a sexual relationship, but does lack the twin aspects of it. By that I mean, there is not as much knowing the others thoughts, feelings, emotions, etc. 

Soul mate relationships are about balance; where one is messy, the other is neat. Where one is impulsive, the other is more linear in thought and takes their time in making decisions. The sex can be beautiful and amazing but many of my clients have told me it isnt as passionate. I have not found a difference however, but I am purely going off of my own experiences.

If you prefer stability in a relationship, you will want to seek out your soul mate rather than your twin flame; there is very little stability in the twin flame relationship. Balance, as I mentioned is the key to soul mates; balancing each other is a big part of it. This is missing in the twin flame relationship because you are twin souls - the literal other half of the soul.

Again, the twin flame relationship is not easy and contrary to much that is put out there about them, even when you do manage to end up together - which is extremely rare - the relationships are fraught with drama and hardship.

So, chose wisely; I always say if you are fortunate to meet your twin flame, that is great but rather than obsess over when he/she will be back, focus on what is best for you and choosing the best mate for you.

Love,

Suzanne Grace

Psychic Medium Healer Life Coach Spiritual Coach Pet Communicator



Client Victories - Proof of Growth!

Posted on June 21, 2014 at 3:35 AM

Client Victories

By Suzanne Grace

 

I often have clients who are in pain from heartache. It is indeed a soul-splitting pain that does not just go away; rather, the rejection seems to fester. As a psychic medium I am often called to help with these occurrences and they never get easier.

However, when we work with those who want to understand the loss and what it means to their karma, it is always a pleasure to celebrate their victories in understanding the WHY behind the dissolution of a relationship.

A client I will call Mary has frequently called me at ESPsychics.com due to the pain she was experiencing after a recent breakup. She had done nothing wrong and neither did her boyfriend; although he just disappeared one night, it was important for her to come to terms with why he did that as well as receive some spiritual closure on it.

First, it was important for her to understand that she did nothing wrong; while it is easy to blame ourselves when relationships fail, we should understand that there is a much larger force at play here. Sometimes when we do not listen to our guides and/or intuition, spirit will take over. When a relationship is no longer (or not at all) healthy, spirit creates an event that causes the relationship to end so that we may grow from it as well as to allow a space for those who are in alignment with us room to enter our lives.

When we look back on what has occurred in our lives, we see that it was always for the best. Even though it hurts so badly at the time, in the long run we are better for it. With Mary, she did not understand what she had done to deserve the pain she was experiencing and without closure, she felt she had failed in some way.

In working with her guides, reading her energy and past lives, I was able to give her information about her life, her relationship as well as information from her guides that told the story of why this all occurred. While it took some time to get her past the grief, the beauty of it all was in doing so, she was able to see the big picture, and celebrate her new knowledge with a deeper understanding of how the Universe works.

Mary is now in a loving, committed relationship and this one is absolutely a keeper. She still has some questions at times and I am always here to help her but in terms of feeling punished or that she did something wrong, she no longer questions her intuition or the work of her guides. She has a profound understanding that some relationships do just need to end in order for us to karmically move forward.

 

Suzanne Grace, Psychic, Medium and Healer

 

Keywords to know are:

Intuitive

Spirit Medium

Psychic

Psychic Medium

Intuitive Medium

Physical Medium

Mediumship

Reading

Telepathy

Channeling

Trance Medium

Clairaudience (clear hearing)

Clairvoyance (clear seeing)

Clairsentience (clear knowing)

Claircognizance (clear feeling)

Guides

Spirits

Free Will

Growth

Healing

Psychic Amnesia

Posted on June 21, 2014 at 3:30 AM

Psychic Amnesia

By Suzanne Grace

Psychic amnesia may sound funny but it is in fact very real. We create psychic amnesia in a few ways, but I will share the most common reasons it happens. While we may not want to acknowledge it out loud, many of us are guilty of wanting to see a psychic or medium fail or found to be lacking in some ways or even flat out wrong. We go into a reading – whether public or private – and look to see how the medium trips up! When we do this, however we not only block the flow but we are too busy listening for inconstancies that we miss valid information meant for us. We also do this as we tend to fear what we do not know, cannot prove or see. We can be the biggest believers yet the biggest skeptics at the same time.

While this has happened to me many times over the years, I recently met with a client in her home that truly takes the amnesiac cake! While she purported to be a big believer prior to our appointment, I felt nervous going in; I knew I was going to be tested – and like everyone else, I do not really like tests.

Now, just so you know I am very good at what I do; I actually really do care and want to give my client information that not only massages my ego (yes, I am human and do have an ego), but also allows for healing and to move forward in a given situation. That said, when I entered her home, I immediately felt uncomfortable – but more on that later – as I knew she had either hoped I would flake or had hoped I would cancel. Of course, I did neither, even knowing about the pressure of a test I was facing.

We sat down and I began to share with her the notes I had taken prior to my arrival. All day long I had her sister with me who (it turns out) had passed away quite a few years ago. I began with asking her about her sister or friend who is like a sister in spirit (close friends can also come through carrying the same energy a sister would) and she looked at me and said, “um, no, I do not have a sister in spirit”. I said, “are you sure? I have her with me……….she died of a female cancer………….” Blank stare and the negative shake of her head. I had no choice but to move on.

Next, I asked her about her father in spirit which she confirmed; I said, “your father is telling me about a great love you had at one point in your life.” She looked at me with the same look as before and said, “um, no; I have not had a great love.” I said, “this love goes back many, many years.” And she once again replied with a shake of her head, and the same words: “Um, no, no great love.” At this point of course, I am questioning myself as I can understand being wrong once in a while as we are human and do make mistakes, but this was getting ridiculous!

We went through a host of things; I nailed her travel destinations for the year (although I did get a few no’s with them, later it turns out I was correct), her career aspirations as well as some information regarding her health and family. Essentially, the usual stuff.

As I was still somewhat ego-hurt over the incorrect information I had supposedly given her, I did spend more than the usual hour there. As we are getting closer to the second hour, however I knew I needed to get going. She asked if I could see her home, her altar and so forth, so I did giving the usual ooohhhs and aahhhhs as we toured around.

We enter the guest bedroom and everything shifts; early on in the reading I had asked about witch-craft or Wicca and was told no, she does not dabble but when I entered the guest bedroom, I saw row upon row of books about spells, incantations, Wicca and witchcraft. THIS is another way to block energy – having books about witchcraft and spells that you deny you have will also block the flow of energy, but this doesn’t even matter as what happened next truly threw me for a loop!

I sat down on the edge of her bed and asked her about one of her spell books and she says to me, “My sister gave that to me BEFORE SHE DIED OF OVARIAN CANCER.” Wait, what? Did you JUST say your sister is passed over, the same sister you denied having? She said, “you never asked me about my sister” and I said, “let me grab my notebook so we can actually discuss what you said.”

Notebook in hand, I went back over the notes from her sister; she confirmed EVERYTHING I had originally said and even new information that I was giving to her. After I finished up with this, and now was truly pushing the 3 hour timeframe, I said I truly must go. She started to get emotional and said she was a bit afraid of going to Brazil because…………get this……………HER GREAT LOVE IS STILL LIVING THERE!

Wait, what? Her great love that she told me did not exist? Well, turns out that she was so busy trying to find me lacking that she gave herself psychic amnesia! While I do not ever recommend that one try to make the information fit, I do suggest that when you are paying for information that you listen to what is being delivered instead of self-sabotaging what you are paying good money for. We of course should have a healthy level of skepticism and should not take every word delivered by a psychic medium as gospel; as I said before – and will say again – we are incorrect in the delivery of the information from time-to-time.

However, we can also miss out on valuable information that allows for us to heal; we cannot heal if we go into a reading with the thought that the person delivering the information is wrong. It is best if we enter a reading, listen, filter what we hear and absorb that which feels correct or sits well with our own intuition. Psychic amnesia is frustrating for both the medium and the client and does not allow for the information to flow; I was fortunate that I was able to pull on her sister’s energy and deliver a message. Usually if we send a spirit on and tell them it was not for them, we cannot get them to come back.

It is important to also verify that the person giving the reading has been verified and/or tested. There will always be those who try to capitalize on others and there are others who cannot read our energy because we are not a good fit; for the most part however, the average person can be read by just about anyone. To ensure you are receiving information from a true psychic medium, do your research! Find out who your friends see, who they recommend and also validate them via the American Federation of Psychics, Mediums and Healers or via the ESPsychics.com website. It is your money after all; don’t throw it away.

 

Words to remember:

Amnesia

Intuition

Intuitive

Spirit Medium

Psychic

Psychic Medium

Intuitive Medium

Physical Medium

Mediumship

Reading

Telepathy

Channeling

Trance Medium

Clairaudience (clear hearing)

Clairvoyance (clear seeing)

Clairsentience (clear knowing)

Claircognizance (clear feeling)

Guides

Spirits

Free Will

 

 

What is a Psychic Medium?

Posted on June 21, 2014 at 3:30 AM

Some will refer to themselves as spiritual mediums, intuitive mediums or even an intuitive, but it is all basically the same—all communicate in one form or another with those on the other side of the veil. I am a "psychic medium," but there are big differences between a psychic and a medium.

 

A psychic is not a medium (meaning they do not communicate with your loved ones on the other side), but a medium is (typically) a psychic.

 

A Psychic works with your energy or the energy of specific objects by feeling or sensing pieces of your past, present and future. A Psychic uses their intuition to learn about and connect with you.

 

Mediums, however use their psychic or intuitive abilities to see the past, present and future pieces of you by connecting into the spirit energies around you. Basically as a medium, I work with your non-physical energies (as well as my own such as my guides) in order to connect and deliver the information you are looking for; we call this a “reading”.

 

I specifically focus on mediumship: I connect with and bring to you messages from people (as well as angels) who are no longer living to those who still are. I am blessed to work with angels, spirit guides as well as those who are no longer living; this is who will bring me the messages to deliver to you!

 

There are couple of different types of mediums; while the movies tend to focus on physical mediums (those who create energies in which everyone can see them in the form of a wispy, smoky looking apparitions or speak in the voice of the spirit you are connecting with, both of which are very rare) I am a mental medium, which means I work with spirits using telepathy. Your spirits (or my guides) will give me thoughts and feelings (which are messages that I in turn will deliver to you) that can be "heard" (clairaudience), "seen" (clairvoyance), "known" (claircognizance) and/or "felt" (clairsentience).

It is important to remember that a psychic reading will focus on predicting your future or future events but as a medium, I am more focused on your past as well as current issues you may be facing. I also strongly feel that predicting the future, which can be somewhat helpful, does run the risk of disabling people. You do have free will which means you have the absolute power in how your future unfolds. As such, while I or anyone else may give you specific information regarding events in your life and future, you choose how this will unfold for you!

Any prediction given by a Psychic is strictly given as insight into what MAY happen based on the CHOICES you are currently making and with that said, any information given should ONLY be used as —and it should be used only as a parameter to assist you in making the best decisions for yourself; no way should the information be used as an absolute.

 

All mediums and psychics specialize in specific areas; some are placed here to teach such as James van Praagh; others like Theresa Caputo (The Long Island Medium) are here to help you realize that your loved one is at peace. I find that I fit in somewhere in the middle; I have worked in crime solving, I have also crossed over those souls who are lost and full of torment, but my passion lies in assisting you with the current issues you may have, relieve past life or past burdens you may carry as well as to help bring closure so that you can move on free from guilt in order for you to be able to walk your path, live your destiny, freed from grief, guilt and struggle.

 

Keywords to know are:

Intuitive

Spirit Medium

Psychic

Psychic Medium

Intuitive Medium

Physical Medium

Mediumship

Reading

Telepathy

Channeling

Trance Medium

Clairaudience (clear hearing)

Clairvoyance (clear seeing)

Clairsentience (clear knowing)

Claircognizance (clear feeling)

Guides

Spirits

Free Will

 

 


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